Well, well, well, if it isn’t another day in the perplexing world of adult friendships, where the borrow-o-meter seems to go off the charts, leaving us scratching our heads. Buckle up, dear readers, for I’ve stumbled upon a story that’s more captivating than a telenovela minus the dramatic music. Today, we’re diving into a real Reddit tale from a real person about an SUV, a table, and the classic conundrum of ‘to lend or not to lend.’ Fasten your seatbelts – you’re riding shotgun with me, Roger, as we cruise through this vehicular vexation.
The scene is set with our protagonist, an unsuspecting SUV owner with a trusty old ride that’s seen its fair share of miles and memories. This isn’t just any SUV; it’s a ‘dream SUV,’ destined for restoration glory days when our hero hits the golden age of 70 or thereabouts. Enter stage left, a coworker with a penchant for picking up oversized furniture. Once upon a several months ago, our protagonist played the good Samaritan, ferrying said coworker and a newly acquired table across the land (or 20 kilometers, to be exact).
Fast forward to last week, and the coworker’s eyes have once again turned to the SUV, this time with a request to borrow it outright. Ah, but here’s the plot twist – our protagonist, citing the SUV’s quirks and personal attachment, declines. A declination that led to a $200 U-Haul rental and a friendship now navigating choppy waters.
As the tale unfolds, emotions run high, and the question looms: Is our protagonist the antagonist in this story? Before I unleash the might of Roger’s Hot Take, let’s simmer down and stew over some delicious details.
First off, can we talk about how the SUV is described as old and quirky, yet simultaneously a dream that’s tickling the fancy of a future restoration project? That’s like saying, ‘This old sandwich is way past its prime, but boy, do I plan to savor it when I’m 70.’ It’s peculiar yet profoundly poetic.
Secondly, the notion of borrowing vehicles. In an age where people are more possessive over their Wi-Fi passwords than their dental records, lending a vehicle feels almost archaic, a nod to a bygone era of trust and simplicity. Yet, here we are, debating the merits of motorized generosity.
Now, for those perched on the edge of your seats, drumroll, please, for Roger’s Hot Take: Our protagonist is not, I repeat, NOT the ‘asshole’ in this automotive anecdote. Here’s why: boundaries, my dear Watsons. In a world that’s constantly taking, sometimes it’s okay to say, ‘Not today, dear friend, not my SUV.’ It’s a tale not of vehicular villainy, but of personal limits and the respect thereof.
Moreover, this SUV saga doubles as a cautionary tale against the assumption that what was lent once can be lent again, a narrative many can relate to. Our protagonist offered a favor, not a lifetime subscription to ‘SUV Go,’ the fictional streaming service for on-demand vehicle borrowing.
In conclusion, dear readers, as we park this story, let’s remember the importance of communication, understanding, and respecting one another’s prized possessions, no matter how old, quirky, or future project-y they may be. Until next time, keep your wheels spinning and your boundaries well-defined. Roger, over and out.
Original story
My Co worker asked me one time to pick up a table , and I agree , I have an old SUV that can fit large item. It was 20 km away and I drove him to pick up the table . This was several months ago
Last week. he asked me to borrow the SUV. and I told him, it’s an old SUV that has a lot quirks, I am not comfortable lending it to him, things can go wrong and I would be stressed. He asked me if I am available on Thursday and I said I am not available. He has an appointment to pick up more furniture from the store that day.
So several days has passed, and Now he is mad, because he had to pay $200 to rent a u haul
For sure I am not the ass hole here. but looking for some peace of mind. I might show him this post too maybe he has his side that he can add in the details , you know there’s always two sides of a coin
Thank you
I want to add, that this old SUV, as rusty as it is, it is my dream SUV. I plan to never sell it and restore it when I am 70 years old or something (if I make it that far)