AITA for Telling My Wife’s Colleague to Mind Her Own Business?

Introducing the HR Drama You Didn’t Know You Needed

Gather ’round, folks! Today, we’ve got a real juicy one from the depths of Reddit, where life’s petty dramas find sanctuary. Picture this: a man and his wife, living their best lives, when – BAM! – enter the nosy colleague with unsolicited advice. Oh, the nerve!

Step into the Drama

So, our hero, let’s call him Joe, was minding his own business, living that classic marital bliss life. His wife, let’s call her Sarah, works with a colleague named Linda, who evidently fancies herself a marital guru despite having divorced her own husband. Now, don’t get me wrong, Linda can hand out all the advice she wants, but maybe she needs to check her credentials at the door.

One fine day, Sarah innocently shares some of their household squabbles – you know, the regular who-left-the-toilet-seat-up type of banter – at work. As colleagues do, they chat, they laugh, they sigh. But Linda? Oh boy, Linda takes it upon herself to bombard Sarah with a full-on lecture about marital duties, relationships, and the hidden perils of male inadequacy. The audacity!

The Straw That Broke Joe’s Back

Fast forward to a lovely quiet evening at Joe and Sarah’s home. Joe, bless his heart, is trying to catch the game when Sarah, evidently carrying Linda’s unsolicited relationship rulebook, decides it’s time to discuss their dynamic. Cue: Eye roll. But Joe’s a trooper, he nods, he listens, until – wait for it – Sarah drops Linda’s name into the conversation for what feels like the millionth time.

Joe eventually snaps and does what many a man would do when pestered in his own living room: he heads straight for the remote, switches off the TV, and unloads a sassy retort that could shake even the strongest of egos. He tells his wife – with perfect timing, mind you – that Linda has NO SAY in their life, especially since she couldn’t keep her own marriage afloat. Mic drop.

The Aftermath, aka Walking on Eggshells

If you think this spicy retort ended things there, you’re sorely mistaken. Sarah, flabbergasted, gives Joe the silent treatment, a skill honed by women for centuries. And Linda? She continues her merry ways, blissfully unaware of the storm she ignited in the Joe-Sarah household. But there’s more: Sarah, armed with a newfound piety about Linda’s ‘advice’, begins to second-guess every subsequent dinner conversation.

The comments section of Reddit becomes Joe’s next battlefield. While some users, bless their hearts, rally around Joe, appreciating his no-nonsense approach, others chastise him, claiming he was too harsh. The audacity of Redditors, folks. But hey, drama is as drama does.

Dear Colleagues, Please Stay in Your Lanes

Now, let’s take a pause and reflect, shall we? It’s one thing to bond over workplace woes, but giving advice that turns one person’s personal life into a battlefield… that’s a red card offense. Here’s the thing: good advice is always welcome, but unsolicited, judgment-laden advice? That’s a one-way ticket to the Doghouse Express. And in this case, Joe felt like he was the conductor of that train.

Linda, darling, maybe try focusing on your own triumphs and tribulations before jumping into others’ lives with feet first? I mean, is it just me, or does it feel like Linda’s transferring a bit of her own life’s drama onto Sarah and Joe? Classic projection, anyone?

So, Who’s the Real A-Hole?

Alright, let’s break it down. Was Joe a bit harsh? Perhaps. But sometimes the truth comes out wrapped in a sassy bow. Sarah, on the other hand, should probably learn to filter her sources of advice a tad more carefully. And Linda? Oh Linda, keep that marital advice in your back pocket until someone actually asks for it.

After all, if we started running our lives by the handbook of every divorced acquaintance, we’d need a rotating door for ex-partners chiming in with their two cents. Yikes, imagine the chaos!

Roger’s Final Take

In the grand scheme of things, Joe’s outburst might have been the necessary bump in the road to signal that some boundaries need establishing. Workplace advice is one thing, but letting it drive a wedge between partners at home? Not on my watch.

So here’s to Joe, speaking up for men everywhere who just want to watch their football in peace, and here’s a gentle nudge to Sarah, uplifting her as she navigates the treacherous waters of workplace advice. And Linda? Keep that advice train rolling, gal, just ensure your passengers are willing to get on board.

Ciao for now, drama aficionados. Until the next domestic showdown!

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