My Boyfriend’s Virtual Rendezvous: Is Texting Tinderella Cheating?
Folks, let’s take a ride down the rabbit hole of modern romance with a real doozy from the vast, sometimes menacing plains of Reddit. Brace yourselves, because this story will have you scoffing, laughing, and scratching your head faster than you can say ‘WTH?!’. Our protagonist might just make you reconsider that ‘full trust’ policy in your relationship!
Once upon a digital age, a woman stumbled upon her boyfriend’s little secret. It wasn’t lipstick on the collar or dinner receipts from fancy restaurants—they live in 2023, after all. Nope, it was a mysterious text message from an unknown number donning a very exotic country code: +57.
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So a couple nights ago I saw my boyfriend got a text from a weird number with a +57 country code, he said it was spam so I thought nothing of it.
Then yesterday I saw him texting the same number and did a bit of digging to find out he’s been texting with this women from Colombia. My bfs never even been there so I was confused and demanded that he explained.
He went on to tell me how he’s been using some app called Crema Social to go on all these virtual meetups and apparently he’s dated at least 15+ of these women. He’s claiming he’s done nothing wrong because they are just virtual and he’s just trying to make friends but this really feels like cheating to me, atleast emotional if nothing else.
He admitted this was wrong but told me he felt lonely recently, I’ve been to busy with work, etc, etc. He told me he’d delete the app and all their numbers but to me the damage is done.
We were suppose to move in together when my lease ends this fall but now I’m reconsidering everything. Is this cheating?